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Where do I want to start?\u00a0 Honestly, I have so many thoughts and none of them seem to be right to start with.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

A few years ago I heard for the first time from someone about the whole thing about egg count, stimulation, collection, and storage.<\/span><\/p>\n

I became interested in it immediately since I\u2019ve heard about it mostly when one would either try to get pregnant or if a couple was considering their future.\u00a0 This was the first time hearing about this from a single person whose life was a total mess and thought to freeze her eggs because the man she was with was not ready to commit.<\/span><\/p>\n

Her vision was to get at least a baby if nothing else and that would make her happy.\u00a0 I was shocked at that moment, and I told her that her approach is entirely wrong and will not have a good outcome.\u00a0 Since I constantly speak about consequences, I\u2019ll tell you today\u2019s situation.\u00a0 She is now pregnant, with no man, and who knows what will happen after her delivery.\u00a0 She is using this child as bandwidth for testing the baby\u2019s father, but there is no relationship there.\u00a0 I mean no real relationship or any sort of commitment.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been hearing about this process constantly, and today, I heard it from someone who is pretty close to me.\u00a0 It made me think that I wanted to share my thoughts with you.<\/p>\n

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God created humans in pairs for a reason. <\/span><\/h2>\n<\/blockquote>\n

We all should learn from our differences. We should adjust our egos while adopting each other\u2019s habits trying to make it work. The biggest challenge is to be with each other since it\u2019s quintessential to learn about ourselves through our partner\u2019s eyes. We heal our souls and as a result, we have children.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Having three children myself, I can tell you that children show us ourselves in so many areas.\u00a0 That is why you sometimes get so upset with them or overreact.\u00a0 It is because they are mirroring and it\u2019s annoying if your soul is wounded.\u00a0 It\u2019s YOUR being that starts leaking blood, not the child\u2019s problem.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, let\u2019s see how egg storage plays into all of that.\u00a0 A girl doesn\u2019t want to change anything in her life, doesn\u2019t want to change her thinking, or adjust her lifestyle, or heal her childhood wounds.\u00a0 She wants to follow the \u201csocietal\u201d set protocol and have babies. That is not correct in the first place since children are not toys that you can buy and then break and discard.\u00a0 A baby is a precious soul that you are entrusted with.\u00a0 Another issue that will arise with all that is not knowing how healthy your eggs are.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Everyone says that you need to be young but now, many young people are so unhealthy and some older people are much healthier not only on a physical level but also emotionally.\u00a0 So here we go, egg collection, then storage.\u00a0 How much money one will pay for egg harvesting, and then collection, and then storage? For how many years? Are you waiting for Mister Perfect?\u00a0 Or are you waiting for somebody who will agree to support you?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Once again, if you don\u2019t want to work on yourself, you would not know the answer to <\/span>these questions.\u00a0 Once again, even with eggs frozen and healthy, you may get yourself a troubled family.\u00a0 The older we get the less likely we can change or easily change.\u00a0 What is the next step?\u00a0 Donor insemination?<\/span><\/p>\n

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Do you think that your eggs will take off immediately? They may not, none of them may.\u00a0 Once again, it brings us to a correct inner work that one would have done on oneself before pregnancy.\u00a0 In the egg collection case, we don\u2019t need to \u201cdo\u201d anything.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Nature created us in a certain way. We should \u201cdo\u201d something in order to give us an opportunity to have a child in our life.\u00a0 <\/span><\/h2>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Perhaps we take charge in too many areas that we shouldn\u2019t. There are always exceptions, and having this option is definitely good, but too many people are using it as a crutch for themselves rather than the last reserve in case of a colossal failure.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll tell you more.\u00a0 If you have cleaned your own horse stables, you\u2019ll get everything you want including a man and a child.\u00a0 You can party or just live an unconscious lifestyle till 40. Then you decide to put stored eggs in, and they won\u2019t take successful fertilization.\u00a0 Imagine the disaster that it would be.\u00a0 Say one meets a man and they decide to use eggs and again, no feelings?!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Again, a disaster.\u00a0 So people, please be wiser! Don\u2019t just jump into doing something because everyone is doing it.\u00a0 Please think.\u00a0 It\u2019s a child\u2019s life you are playing with and your own emotional state.\u00a0 Your well-being is at stake.\u00a0 Both are tragically impacted if there is a failure of any kind.<\/span><\/p>\n

Be smart, be kind to yourself, be loving to souls that are coming, or may come your way.<\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

A final few words to remember as you are pondering all of this.\u00a0 Think about your life and not just about keeping some eggs on ice.\u00a0 Work on yourself:<\/span><\/p>\n

Life is what happens while you are busy planning\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Where do I want to start?\u00a0 Honestly, I have so many thoughts and none of them seem to be right to start with.\u00a0\u00a0 A few years ago I heard for the first time from someone about the whole thing about egg count, stimulation, collection, and storage. I became interested in it immediately since I\u2019ve heard about […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":12832,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12830","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-realtionships"],"yoast_head":"\nSingle Women: Will Freezing Your Eggs Fix Your Life? 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