{"id":12246,"date":"2018-08-27T22:36:59","date_gmt":"2018-08-27T22:36:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wordoftheprincess.dreamhosters.com\/?p=12246"},"modified":"2018-08-27T22:36:59","modified_gmt":"2018-08-27T22:36:59","slug":"men-are-the-sun-women-are-the-moon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordoftheprincess.dreamhosters.com\/?p=12246","title":{"rendered":"Men Are The Sun, Women Are The Moon"},"content":{"rendered":"

I have made a comparison between men and women and the sun and the moon in a few of my posts.<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t a coincidence! Men and women each have a certain type of energy that our nature is based on. If we follow that basis, we usually feel happy, calm, secure, and our relationships as well as core-being are thriving. For example, the male energy – the Sun. He is very active, a breadwinner, responsible, shines, protects, etc. Therefore, if a man fulfills those traits, he feels satisfied and happy because he lives according to his nature.<\/p>\n

On the opposite is a woman \u2013 the Moon. She helps everyone to \u201ccool down\u201d in her shadow after a long and exhausting day. The Moon brings calmness and relaxation. It is the one that wraps its beaming rays when one is sad.<\/p>\n

That is the nature of women.<\/h2>\n

How many of us realize this and fulfill those energy patterns in our lives? Then we are surprised we are unhappy when we don\u2019t. Why we are constantly exhausted? Why is our life often falling apart? Note, as an example, that an owl can see perfectly at night. It can try during the day time too, but will not hunt effectively and may die quicker than its life expectancy. Are we that different when we deny our nature?<\/p>\n

\"\"99% of us, men and women, have completely forgotten our nature. I read a lot of comments from readers about how good it is for a woman to strive for success, that men should take care of themselves, and women should not be housekeepers for them. That women should shine with their brain on a social arena as much as possible to prove to the world she can do it. My readers comments have failed to notice, however, that statistics suggest and support that a large percentage of failed marriages are occurring in couples where a woman is very or overly educated! The failure is not that they are educated, that is absurd, but in the way that society has engraved in women\u2019s brains that they should use their knowledge as a weapon to conquer. That they should abandon themselves and their duties and compete alongside and with men.<\/p>\n

That is a simple statement that not many readers acknowledge nor is it a really popular opinion. However, tons of readers throw in the comments their weird facts about what a good concept equality is. Some people will tell me that women can take care of the household, and<\/em> have a career. Let me break this illusion. Do you think it\u2019s possible to be the Sun and Moon at the same time? Do you think it\u2019s possible to be 50\/50? How is that? Half a day you are acting like a man and the other half like a woman? And you really think it\u2019s possible?<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll agree with you, for arguments sake. Say it is possible. How long do you think that torture will last? Do you think men can be half a man for a day, and the other half a woman? Hmmmm. How is that?<\/p>\n

Sorry, but all of that is social media brainwashing you.<\/h2>\n

Almost in all cases, one of those energies is more dominant and because the sun\u2019s energy is more aggressive at its nature, that is the one that usually takes charge. This is how we end up with a woman who has switched her energy from one that she was created for, to one that is completely foreign for her.<\/p>\n

Sometimes it can even work for a while and then the woman usually starts suffering from all kinds of illnesses, such as 24\/7 tiredness, apathy, and ending with cancers and infertility. Her system just breaks down. Do we take that into consideration and take responsibility? Oh no. We blame everything and everybody for why we got sick, but the culprit is in the mirror. From my experience, and I\u2019ve seen a lot of \u201cSun women\u201d and almost all of them are very successful in what they are doing, but NONE of them are happy. They try to show and prove that they are happy, but they are not! I also know a few extremely successful women who have been successful for decades, and 50 out of 60 of them truly cry their eyes out from the tiredness of doing things on their own, and being \u201cstrong\u201d.<\/p>\n

They would give up everything they have in order to find a \u201ccozy shoulder to lean on\u201d, BUT they have gotten themselves too far along on a different path from any opportunity to find that shoulder. They have killed off all femininity in themselves and it is impossible for them to find a suitable candidate. Even if they did get lucky and find one, they would not be able to let him be with them, those women will burn poor men in the strong flames of hell fire.<\/p>\n

Let me get back to where we started and continue to show you how that different type of energy works in genders. Let\u2019s take a look at what kind of couples emerge out of different energy patterns in relationships. Hopefully you\u2019ll see your family pattern in one of these and recognize what areas you need to change or think about to make the pattern either stronger or change it completely.<\/p>\n

Harmony:<\/h2>\n

He is mostly strong Sun-energy operated.<\/p>\n

She is mostly Moon-energy operated.<\/p>\n

Man carries total responsibility for woman and children. Woman takes care of emotional state of her family. Harmony. She listens to her man and he is a leader. In this type of family both man and woman are happy and satisfied because each of them lives according to their natural path and don\u2019t try to break it. Usually in those types of family\u2019s, children are raised correctly, taught how to be men and women, don\u2019t deny their genders\/roles based on mama\u2019s and daddy\u2019s examples – does it get better then that?<\/p>\n

\"\"He Is The Moon:<\/h2>\n

He is operating on Moon energy.<\/p>\n

She is operating on Sun energy.<\/p>\n

It is not a rare example. Almost every one of us has those couples in front of us. She chooses to act like a man and the man is left only with a couple of choices: try to break that pattern and battle this until it \u201ckills\u201d him, or give up to \u201cstay alive\u201d. Sometimes, however, a man chooses to stay home and take care of the house when circumstances are pretty decent for him to do so, while his significant other is \u201cbattling with the reality\u201d and has to be the one to provide. As we all know, it may work for a while. Family has money and comfort, but after a few years\/decades she realizes that she is too tired to carry enormous responsibility on her fragile shoulders that weren\u2019t built for that burden in the first place. He, however, also gets tired and becomes a some sort of couch potato because he is lacking any opportunity to achieve anything. For example, to win a fight, escape danger, etc. In other words, to shine like the Sun and his woman misses \u201ccooling him down after a battle\u201d, like a Moon.<\/p>\n

Sun Kingdom<\/h2>\n

He operates on Sun energy.<\/p>\n

She operates on Sun energy.<\/p>\n

This family is in a constant fight for everything. They try to win each other\u2019s territory, they try to compete over roles, whose opinion is the right one, and at the end of the day they are both extremely exhausted and miserable. The man doesn\u2019t have any strength left to \u201cbattle\u201d the world because he is constantly battling with his wife at home, and she can\u2019t find mental and emotional peace because of the same competitions. She can\u2019t rely on him.<\/p>\n

Moon Kingdom:<\/h2>\n

He operates on Moon energy.<\/p>\n

She operates on Moon energy.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve seen only two or three couples like this, and both are too calm to the point of being boring. The man doesn\u2019t want to achieve anything in that relationship, and woman also lives on some sort of auto-pilot. It is not a happy picture. Besides, what kind of a man would choose to be Moon-operated? We are talking only about traditional men. What kind of a man would surrounded himself to a boring, old every day life without fights, prizes, winnings, etc? No one in their right mind, unless there is something else going on that we may not be aware of.<\/p>\n

In conclusion, in that short description we see that this is a woman who \u201cviolates the rules\u201d of the game. She goes to a battlefield that is not hers to battle. And then we are surprised when we aren\u2019t happy. What gender do you see nowadays that is less satisfied? I see women. They are the ones who have all kind of problems with their self-esteem, with themselves, with the universe.<\/p>\n

So ladies, let me ask you this: why are we doing this to ourselves? Do we like to be miserable? Is it that much easier for us than being happy? Note: we don\u2019t have to do much to be happy, we just need to go back to our innate nature. We have to celebrate it, enjoy it, accept it, learn about it, let us be. Let us be that Moon that drifts in and out of the sky, the Moon that is always there, the Moon that comes up when it\u2019s her time, and cools us down. The Moon that hides behind the Sun, which makes her precious and loved.<\/p>\n

Why do you think a lot of romantic inspiration and music happen under the influence of the Moon?<\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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